Binge drink warning after young man dies

Published Monday, 18 June 2012
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The father of a young Newtownards man who lost his fight with alcoholism earlier this month says he wants his son's death to act as a warning to other binge drinkers.

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Brian Anderson says his son Gareth's demise was a tragedy that no other young person needs to go through.

Gareth took his first drink aged 16 and three years later was admitted to the Ulster Hospital in Dundonald with severe liver problems.

His distraught father went public in 2009 to highlight his plight and to raise awareness of his fight to get his son a transplant.

Gareth eventually received treatment at King's College in London and had been turning his life around until he went on a drinking binge which lasted a few days following an argument.

As a result, his liver failed for the last time.

His father said: "Vodka seemed to be the killer for him. Knowing that, he drank so much of it that he would blow up the liver that he had repaired in London in 2009."

To me, unfortunately, this was like an act of suicide.

Brian Anderson on UTV Live

Gareth had been found by friends, during his final drinking binge, who took him to hospital.

Mr Anderson described to UTV the moment he visited his son in the Ulster Hospital.

"I walked in [to the ward] to find Gareth in a very, very stressful condition, and also, again, he had turned yellow where the liver had failed to function."

The 22-year-old's condition continued to deteriorate and he died last Monday.

"We battled hard at the time to get us to London and we got him there and got him fixed temporarily, and it was a temporary fix, four to five years he was given.

"For 13 months, Gareth was clean. Unfortunately just more than a year ago he went for a week's holiday and slipped."

Mr Anderson, along with the help of local MP Jim Shannon, tried to get Gareth into various treatment facilities.

"He was acting very erratically.

"The bottom line is unless Gareth helped himself over this last period of time, a year or more, we couldn't help him. I couldn't help him.

"I explained all that to him. 'If you help yourself son, we will help you, but until you try and help yourself I can't help you.'"

Mr Anderson told UTV that his son's life was a struggle and was always going to be a struggle unless Gareth gave up alcohol for good.

"Truthfully, I didn't know Gareth had any illnesses until this illness happened in 2009," he said, adding that after his son received help the rules were very simple.

"He was not to take alcohol and he took the alcohol."

His father maintains that if his son had stayed off drink, his long term health would have improved.

"He had his chance, but he didn't take it."

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jack in england wrote (339 days ago):
Of course this story will be blown way out of proportion and tar every young person who likes to get drunk at the weekend. He chose to drink himself to death. I've recently moved to England and can't believe the difference in licencing legislation. Clubs open till 5am, alcohol in the middle of the store, not hidden away in the corner like in NI. There is no need for minimum pricing. People are responsible for their own actions. It's none of your business!
jackie in belfast wrote (339 days ago):
RIP young Gareth,what a tragedy.My heartfelt sympathy to Brian i have sons myself and can,t even imagine your grief,no parent should ever have to bury their children.God bless you Brian and your family.
kathy in antrim wrote (339 days ago):
so very very sad, such a waste of life, his dad should not feel guilty, he did ething he could, RIP
anna in lisburn wrote (339 days ago):
In reply to puzzled in Belfast I was fortunate to know Gareth and shared treatment together for the same addiction. Gareth was a normal 22 year old, I have sons that age and older, and if you had known him, he would have made you laugh, and have a great giggle. Nobody decides to become an Alcoholic, it happens and it does get worse. I feel that Gareth's condition for someone so young was accelerated by the many factors of easy access to cheap alcohol and outside socialising factors. I would like to say that I knew some of Gareth's family and seen the support he got from them. It was a pleasure to know Gareth, and may his family find the serenity they need God bless all.
Eileen in Fermanagh wrote (339 days ago):
What a brave and caring father, Gareth Anderson had, but unfortunately his illness, addiction to alcohol(because it is an illness like every other illness) and the victim is more to be pitied than talked about, and no one can help the person, only themselves. Poor Gareth tried hard but unfortunately he lost the battle. I trust now he is at peace away from this constant turmoil he was going through and that his parents will get strength in the days and years ahead. They are in my thoughts and prayers, didnt know Gareth had passed away until I checked the news tonight. Its time the alcohol prices were increased and no more cheap promotions, so that young people wont be addicted at an early age.
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