Published Thursday, 15 September 2011
Kate Carroll spoke out against the rule after it emerged that two top Ulster Unionists - party leader Tom Elliott and MLA Danny Kennedy - could be disciplined by the Order for attending the Catholic funeral service of murdered police constable Ronan Kerr.
The 25-year-old was killed after a bomb was left under his car outside his Omagh home on 2 April.
Members of the PSNI, GAA officials and politicians all attended the funeral mass in a show of solidarity with the Kerr family.
Mrs Carroll told UTV that she didn't think the Order members should be reprimanded for their presence at the service.
Her husband Stephen was murdered by the Continuity IRA in March 2009.
"These men were showing us an example of how to move on," she said.
"They showed great nobility and bravery by coming into a Catholic church and showing solidarity with all of us."
She added: "I'm not offended, but I'm saddened to see that people still have this mentality whereby Catholics seem to be the second-class citizens, if you like, especially when this country has been making these tentative steps to push life on and not live in the past."
A formal complaint - from a lodge in Belfast's Sandy Row - was made regarding the breach of the strict Orange Order ruling prohibiting members from attending mass.
An internal inquiry is now underway with the issue being discussed at county level in Fermanagh and Armagh, where Mr Elliott and Mr Kennedy are respective members.
A spokesman for the Order said matters like these are private.
A UUP spokesperson said the decision for Mr Elliott and Mr Kennedy to attend Constable Kerr's funeral was to benefit the wider community.