NI's 'hidden problem' of self-harming

Published Wednesday, 06 March 2013
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A young man who turned to self-harming after his parents both took their own lives has told UTV how a local charity helped him to cope with his grief.

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From April to September last year, there were 4,068 recorded incidents self-harm treated at A&Es in Northern Ireland.

That's an average of 22 people a day being admitted to hospital.

It's a problem that 24-year-old Gary Moore has personal experience of.

Gary Moore said he turned to self-harm as he battled with his mental health after the suicides of both his mother and father in 2011.

He said he found it hard to get support and struggled to help his mother, who was diagnosed as bipolar.

"Her moods were always fluctuating, she had severe depression. I never really knew how sick she was," he told UTV.

He said she struggled for seven years with her condition, before she took her own life.

Then just three weeks after his mother's death, Gary's father also took his own life.

He said his father couldn't come to terms with the loss, "She was his world and he couldn't cope," he explained.

Gary said he has no shame in talking about his own experience as he knows there are others who are suffering in the same way.

"You just feel completely detached from everything, the pressure in your head is awful," he explained.

It is a growing problem, it is a hidden problem, and it is something that we really need to talk about.

Philip McTaggart, PIPS Programmes

But Gary said that a lifeline for him was the support he received from suicide prevention charity, PIPS.

"The only kind of place that relieved me from that pressure was PIPs, and talking to people who genuinely care," he said.

"Because when you're in that mindset, that's all it takes, a kind word, to bring you out of that. But when you are on your own, you need to talk. That helped me."

With the support of PIPS, Gary has been able to write his story down for the first time and says they have helped turn his life around.

Philip McTaggart from PIPS said he has seen an increase in young people coming to the charity who have been self-harming.

He said that they are aiming to extend their reach to schools as well as their current work in youth clubs and community centres, to get young people talk about the issue.

"By talking about it, it gives the young people an opportunity then to talk about their experiences, or someone maybe that they know who is self-harming, and give them some advice, and hopefully get that person the help and support that they need."

Mr McTaggart says the organisation helps people see other ways to channel their emotions.

"For many people in today's world, they're on Facebook, they have their earphones in, texting, but they become isolated," he added.

"A form of self-harm is a way of releasing pressure for them, and then they try to cover it up. It's only by luck that a friend or family member might actually see this.

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Lifeline telephone: 0808 808 8000
"What I would encourage, anyone who has noticed someone who is self-harming to get in touch with someone, to try and help support that person. Because they can come through this and come out the other side of it."
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4 Comments
anna in UK wrote (68 days ago):
Self harm is increasing in much of Europe and the United States. The British Prime Minister stated that there is a crisis brewing with young people self harming. I urge cutters and those self harming to get help, children are starting as young as 10
Elaine in Portadown wrote (76 days ago):
It is good to see this important issue being highlighted but it should be noted that incidence of self harm runs much deeper than A&E treatment figures can address. Many people, myself included, have self-harmed for years opting to self treat and hide it away. Not everyone presents at A&E, not all injuries are serious enough to require a visit, but the pain that causes them is just as real. The scale of self harm incidence in Northern Ireland is huge and it continues to grow. It is good that there are now avenues of help and messages of hope for the vulnerble.
Paddy in Antrim wrote (77 days ago):
A scandal that pips and other excellent organisations are not funded by the so called government whilst 15million is wasted on policing protests
Ryan in Belfast wrote (77 days ago):
The amount of social/health problems in our society is very disturbing. I have family members who are studying mental health issues and they work with groups like PIPS and they all do great work but these groups need more and more funding from the goverment because their work really does make a difference. The mental health issues in our society, such as depression, etc is widespread and effects everyone from both the catholic and protestant community. Its time our politicans (and also our communities) to stop moaning about flags, culture, etc and start focusing on REAL issues that effect tens of thousands of young and old people alike. When you think of what we could achieve if we just stopped this nonsense and focus on job creation, the future of young people, bringing more business in, etc alot of our problems would be more easy to solve. I'd really advise anyone, regardless of age, young or old, to contact groups like PIPS if you have problems and need to talk, its best to go to the experts who know how and can help you FIX and SOLVE your problems, no matter how big they may seem, every problem can be solved.
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